misconception on love

Why must people act so stupid for the sake of love?, how come when love comes into the picture people suddenly have no common sense. I hate how everyone has this misconception about love and how perfect it is when in reality everyone knows that there's no such thing as perfect. As love has a good side it also has it's bad sides, and nothing is ever easy it take hard work, and dedication. I understand why people might for in love with the idea of being in love for what they heard is such an amazing feeling, but there's way more to it which you have to be ready for, because love is an emotional rollercoaster. Usually people are so quick to rush to find someone to fall in love with that there judgement isn't always the best, and usually settle for the first thing that comes there way, because they want to experience love, but if it isn't the right person things won't go as plan. Just like everything in life things take time, and understanding to be great. I hate how people love the idea, but never want to work for it. I hate how people see me and my relationship, and say it's perfect well your wrong things just didn't come together for me, i worked hard to get where i'm at. It took so many tears, so much, pain the ups and downs for things to be as good for me as they are now, nothing is ever given. Love shouldn't be played with or taken for granted, which it seem's as if love is losing all meaning. Why must people use the word so losely how can you love one person one day, but the next say you have someone new and all of a sudden your saying you love them, it all just seems to funny to me. People today seems so desperate and they seem to be giving any one the time of day, can't you see how sad it is when right off the back your saying you love some one and letting them take advantage of you, because all they see you as is just a piece of ass. Or how many woman just throw themselves at men, or get so clingy just because he pays you just the slightest of attention. Your suppose to give your heart to someone who deserves it, not just because a guy wants to fuck you. Don't confuse sex for love, because if thats all he seeing, thats all it is. And what's sad to me is that many girls know this, and read to far into it, sex is just sex to most so what might be an act of passion for you may not be the same for someone else. When someone loves you they will make it known, and do everything in there power to make you happy. There's girls i know that all they ever were was ass to a guy, and knew that's all they were, but continue to persue him when he made his intensions very clear, and i sit here laughing thinking to myself your just a fool to allow him to get over on you, where your saying you love him, and he's out doing him like you seize to exist. He pays no mind to you, and it's sad because i know a girl who she's like deeply in love with this kid, and she says he feels the same but he never takes her out, and she's always up his ass, and he does nothing for her except lay the pipe on her, and she continues to claim him as her man and she makes up all the excuses why they have no pictures together. They only time they spend together is late at night when he picks up the phone to call her and say come over he pipes and sends her on her way. He doesn't even treat her to at least mcdonalds when she's hungry. But it's sad how she tries to convince herself he loves her. I hate to see how girls use sex to keep a man, if he wants to leave, he will always leave and nothing can change that. Someone should love you for what you have, and not because you open your legs. Love and sex are to different things so don't confuse sex for love, sex should be something you want to do, and not because you feel you have to in order to keep someone, where's the dignity, where's the self respect. Now bitches want to wonder how come there a single mother on welfare with a dead beat for a father, because your putting so much into just a booty call. But what urks me the most is that people got the nerve to compare what they have with what i have, and in all honesty your far from it. For what i have is in actual love, and is everything to not only me but him. So girls respect your self and stop being just pussy, because that ain't classy